A lot of women cannot orgasm solely from PIV (penis in vagina) action. This doesn’t mean you’re a bad lover. It doesn’t mean you’re broken. It doesn’t mean your partner sucks in the sack. What it means is, the majority of women, about 75% … need some clitoral stimulation to orgasm.So yeah, in-and-out might feel really good- it’s just that sometimes we need a little bit more to take us over the edge. How do we do this, you ask? Include your vibrator!

Sex toys are not just for solo sex. In fact, bringing your buzzing bestie to the party can add some serious sauciness to partner play, and greatly increase your orgasmic opportunities!

HEY HEIDI’S 6 FAVORITE WAYS TO INCORPORATE YOUR VIBRATOR DURING SEX

Before we get started I’d like to add a little note for all my male readers. Vibrators do not replace humans. Don’t be intimated by your partner’s sex toy, it’s an enhancement tool. It’s fun, it’s playful. It’s a toy!Now go get your playtime on!

1. Show him what you like (what you really, really like)

Pre-sex, give your partner a little show. Get a little seductive and use your vibrator on yourself. Start with running it over your entire body, finally making your way to the honeypot. Not only is the way fucking hot, it’s also a great learning experience for your partner.

Hey, partner… pay attention to what she’s doing, where she’s touching, and what rhythm and motions she’s using!

2. Sex toys during oral? Yes, please!

Ahhh… oral sex. The mouth can just do things the peen and vadge cannot, right?! Ready to make oral even better? Yes, use a sex toy!

On a vulva/vagina: Bullet vibes are my absolute favorite- and because of their small size, they are a perfect accompaniment during oral.  Try placing the vibe directly on her clit while inserting finger(s) and massaging her g-spot. You now have a free mouth to explore other erogenous areas on her body. Think kisses, her neck, navel area, and inner thighs. Or while your mouth is on her clit, use the vibe to give attention to those areas.

On a penis: This is so much fun! While giving him a rockstar blowie, put a vibrator under your chin or on your cheek! The vibrations will transfer to his penis, giving him all the feels!  Another great move- place the vibrator firmly in your closed fist and run it up and down his shaft. If his balls are willing, you can also place your hand here.  Always check in to make sure your partner is enjoying the experience.

incorporating your vibrator during sex use a sex toy to give your partner a full body massage
o doesn’t love a massage?

I’m mean really…  Use your vibrator to give your partner an amazing, full-body massage to get things going. Even better, have them give you one! Sore muscle relief, check. Then on to the sexier muscles. Check-check. Add some toy-friendly lube for glide and you’ve got yourself an at-home spa experience like no other!

ways to use your vibrator during sex- put a cock ring on the penis

4. Like Bey says… Put a ring on it!

A ring of the vibrating kind. Cock rings, penis rings, C-rings… call ’em what you like, these lovely vibrators slip over his penis and give your clitoris some well-deserved vibrating attention.

Vibrating rings work especially well in the missionary and girl-on-top (aka Cowgirl) position.

 

incorporating your vibrator during sex- use a sex toy during doggy style
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5. Diversify Doggy-Style!

Doggy is a fun position, but it’s not the best for clit stimulation. Fix that little hiccup with… you got it, a vibrator! 

While in the doggy-style position you can either have your partner reach around and use the vibrator on you, or hell… you can find the perfect spot for yourself!

All while feeling all the goodness this awesome sex position brings!

Bow-wow-wow-yippee-yo-yippee-YAY! 

 

incorporating your vibrator during sex a threesome for two double penetration
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6. A threesome (for two!)

Curious about trying double penetration but maybe not ready or willing to add a third person to the mix?

Insert a vibrator during sex. You could either use it anally (while he goes in vaginally) or vise versa.  Or how about vibrating anal beads? Hmmm…

If using your toy in the butt, make sure it’s specifically designed for booty play (has a wider/flanged base), and remember to use plenty of lube.

 

Do you have any thoughts or questions? Comment below, I’d love to hear from you!

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A lot of women cannot orgasm solely from PIV (penis in vagina) action. This doesn’t mean you’re a bad lover. It doesn’t mean you’re broken. It doesn’t mean your partner sucks in the sack. What it means is, the majority of women, about 75% … need some clitoral stimulation to orgasm.So yeah,...